Body Language
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Body language
When we are meeting someone for the first time, we are bombarded with information.
It can be hard to work out what kind of person they are.
That's why it's important to understand "How" we communicate.
Body language
Eye contact
They often say that: The eyes are the window to the soul
The key to knowing which kind of eye contact someone is giving you, is to consider the context.
Eye contact
For example:
If a person literally can't take their eyes off you, it could mean there's a romantic interest.
Eye contact
On the other hand, When you look someone in the eye, and they can't bring themselves to look back at you, it's a sign that they're eighter nervous, or they've got something to hide.
Eye contact
That said:
If you're talking with someone whose stare is making you squirm, especially if they're very still and not blinking, something is definitely up, and they may be lying to you.
Eyebrows
There are three main emotions that make your eyebrows go up
Eyebrows
If someone talking to you raises their eyebrows, and the topic isn't one that would logically cause surprise , worry or fear. It's a sign that they're feeling pretty uncomfortable.
Smile
When it comes to smiling, the mouth can lie, but the eyes can’t
Genuine smiles reach the eyes, crinkling the skin to create crow's feet around them.
Smile
What they say
If you are meeting someone for the first time, and all they do is talk about their wonderful better half or praise their work colleagues, chances are, they're a pretty decent person themselves.
Studies show, that the more people rate others as being kind, polite, loving and well-mannered.
The more likely they are to also possess these traits.
What they say
However,
The reverse is also true. Anyone backstabbing and describing others as manipulative and nasty, is more likely to have these traits themselves.
It's also possible that they have a history of depression or personality disorder.
Paralanguage
Paralanguage is nonverbal communication such as your tone, pitch or manner of speaking
Paralanguage
Basically, it's a fancy way of saying that you need to pay attention to have someone says something.
For example:
If someone is answering you in monotone, they're most likely unattached to your concept and not interested.
Paralanguage
The use of sarcasm is another the opposite of what the words say.
So, pay attention to the emphasis they put on words and how they say it.
It gives you a big clue as to what their true intentions are.
Side glance
People that are warm and open to meeting you, will have their body facing you and they will look you in the eye. On the flip side, if you've just met someone and they immediately glance away to the side, this is a subconscious body language sign that means they are looking for an escape
Chin and jaw
When someone is trying to make a decision, they tend to rub their chin.
They might be looking up, down, or to the side. It’s a sure sign that they are deep in thought.
Posture
How someone carries themselves can give you some indications about their self confidence.
For example, if someone is walking upright with their shoulders back and looking straight ahead, that gives the indication that they feel good about themselves and have confidence.
Posture
However, if someone is slouching over and looking at the ground when they walk, that gives a much different impression. It may not necessarily mean that they have low self-esteem, but that's the message it gives off
handshake
you can tell a lot by a person's handshake. Soft and flabby and they are likely to be submissive or a pushover. Too hard and crushing- and they are possibly domineering types. the long of time is also important.
too long and it's weird.
handshake
but too short could indicate some from of conflict. It's possible that the person does not want to make a deep connection with you.
but, It could also mean that they don't have much time.
Copying body language
If you've never tried to read people before, this is something you probably haven't noticed. But, pay close attention to it in the future , because when someone mimics your body language. it means they feel so good about you, that they want to harmonize with you.
Copying body language
It’s a sign that the conversation is going well and that the other party Is receptive to your message.
This is done unconsciously as no one walks around with the intention of outright copying someone.
But when we’re comfortable with people, we have a tendency to do what they do.
Body language
Some of us are pretty good at reading the signs that people give off.
While others are so bad, that they need the other person to come out and straight-up tell them what’s on their mind.
Reading people isn’t easy , but if you can do it, it’s a fantastic skill to have.
Of course, everyone is different, so interpreting their words and actions may or may always be accurate.
But hopefully, with these tips , you’ll be well on your way to be coming better at reading people.
Thanks!